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Sí Partners and Significant Others Page
Sí - An Irish Transgender organisation.

 Support for wives & partners too
 

Why a page for Partners? There are many transgendered (TG) girls who will never tell their partners about their transgendered feelings. This is very common, and understandable. It's up to each and every individual to decide for themselves if they can tell their partners, if they want to tell them, and when the best time is to do it. But we regularly get emails at Sí from transgendered people who wish to tell their partners and are unsure of how to approach it. We also are contacted by TG girls who have told their partners and have either had a good response, and their partners would like to know more and meet others, or a response that is not all that one would wish for, and the TG girl is unsure of how to proceed. Finally we may occasionally be contacted by Partners themselves wanting to know more. This page is for all of you and we welcome any correspondence, which will be strictly confidential and we do not require your real name(s). We do not as yet have any plans for partners evenings (but would consider it if demand warranted it) but partners are welcome to go to Tranniehaven in the Gemini club on Saturday nights.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) by Partners
Here is a list of some of the most commonly asked questions by transgendered people's partners. If you are a partner with questions that don't appear here, feel free to email Sí (remove the ssspammm from the address name) in total confidence. We could even publish your question on this site (anonymously if you wish) if you allow it, along with our reply to help other partners.

Anna - The wife of an Irish TV writes.
In what we hope will only be the first of many such contributions, the wife of Sí member Paula Stone has very kindly volunteered to offer her thoughts on being the wife of a transvestite. Anna's article may be of benefit to other partners, and their TG significant others. You can contact Anna by emailing Sí.

Kate and Martha - TV and wife both write
In a new piece, published June 2006, both TV Martha and wife Kate write about what it was like when a TV reveals themselves to their partner after many years into their relationship. Many thanks to both Martha and Kate for their wonderful, honest pieces.

 

 



Gayle's TG Resources - Another superb site for partners seeking information and support.




Kathy and Amanda Bower's Home Page - Very good and extensive site with lots of pics and a diary, although it hasn't been updated in a while.

 

 



Ladylike - Women with Crossdressing Partners.
Professional-looking site with lots of good Q&A's.




If you would like to talk to someone who is not in a Transgender related organisation, then you may want to consider The Samaritans.
You can ring them in Ireland on 1850 60 90 90


 



Though Sí do not normally recommend individual products,
we have heard very good reviews of these books,
in particular "My Husband Betty". Click any of the images
above to see them for sale on the UK Amazon site.

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